Im not having fun there cuz im having flu!
A terrible one .
On the first day, i got a lil of sneezing only .
Its cause that dam workshop hall dam cold . Like a giant fridge .




Played a mind game : How to make 14 nails stand on 1 nail.

After that , we went to some outdoor games .

Imagine u at a 26 degree cold place and it rains.
And u know what ? Everybody continue to play until the rain turn heavier!
U see below where ppl keep throwing each other with the balloon .
Ahh ya include my dad . LOl

I caught a cold after that . Seriously ... -.-
Been sneezing and freezing for the dam day .
Went to dinner with Jeremy , his wife and other members at Gohtong Jaya.
A nice dinner , the deer meat so tender . haha!
Then me and dad went to Genting Casino .

When passing thru the gate, the guard stopped me and ask for my I/C .
I dont looks like 21 meh!!?!?!
Then i went in and its dam big .
But i dont knw how to gamble , so i just play the jackpot thingy .

With a RM10 and i sit there for like 20mins + , i won RM20 .

OMGWTFBBQX !!! HAHAHAH!!

Sounds good? LOL . Dad said i lucky just i tio 200 credit last min.
Haha! If i kena jackpot, the price is ard RM 1 million+ .
Straight away i go book a luxury president suite that night and sleep the hell like a president .
But unfortunetly , i dint win any .

Dad play some , er .. i-dunno-what-game , and won RM400+ .
Actually he won RM700+ but lose some at the end.
Its so risky , that why i hate gambling .
After that , with my RM20 that i won, i bought Famous Amos and went back to our resort.
But dad gave me RM100 too . Hehe , reward i guess ? :p

The next day , 28th June . .
Woke up ard 7.30am for breakfast .
After breakfast , straight away went for workshop at 8.30am.
Dam early . . .

Continue at the workshop until ard 1pm for lunch .
After lunch ard 2pm+ , we went to our room and rest a while .
3pm+ continue the workshop again , all the way until ard 5pm+
Jeremy gave us some tricky games .
60 straws and 2 eggs .
Figure out how to prevent the egg from breaking cuz it will be thrown down ard 3 storey high .

So we work our ass off to salotap that egg and make the shield .
LMAO.
Ard 6pm+ we drove to the place nearby .
Its kinda lame cuz the thing roll down nt thrown down.
The end no eggs was harmed , all safe and sound .

Then we drove home frm Awana .
Sent Esther , Gim Loong and my dad's fren to Wangsa Maju LRT.
Then we head home .
Im dam tired and sick , i felt asleep with my contact lenses .
Bahhhh!!!!
After home , i ate some medicine and rest .

p/s : I keep sneeze until the skin nearby my nose tear.
Those dried skin just wont come off ! ARGH!

I din't really pay full attention on this workshop cuz im dam unwell.

But i did learn something new :)

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Throughout the workshop , i've learned diff kinds of human behaviour.
There are 4 categories :

1) Analytical
2) Amiable
3) Driver
4) Expressive

Analytical

- Ask Assertive , More control
- Serious
- Exacting
- Indecisive
- Logical
- Need : To be right
- Orientation : Thinking
- Growth action : To declare
- Focus on facts and logics
- Act when payoff is clear
- Careful but not commit too quicky ( they think very careful before do anything)
- Verbal and nonverbal cues : few gestures ,proper speech, formal gesture and appearance, listen well
- Workstyle : fairly independent , follow structures properly
- Attitude bout time : Take time to deal with matters objective and carefully
- Attitute bout others : R/s takes times to develop and someone else will be probably make the initial effort to make a new contact.
- Natural work activity strength : Planning and organizing
- Example of Analytical person : Accountants , Quality controller , Quantity surveyor .

When Analytical person is in tension , they tends to ...

- avoid confrontation
- draws attention away from an issue
- retreats to other distraction
- delays decision

* Avoids : Withdraws to reduce personal tension

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Amiable

- Ask Assertive , More emoting
- Dependable
- Supportive
- Pliable
- Open
- Need : Personal Security
- Orientation : Relationship
- Growth action : To intiate
- Amiable person focus on r/s more than others ( e.g: task )
- They consider other ppl's feeling first before doing something
- Work and nonverbal cues : Warm, friendly, open, relaxed postures , slow speech, pleasant and soft voice
- Attitude bout time : Take times to establish r/s and to make steady progress thru slow , sure pace.
- Attitude bout others : Ppl are the most important assest in any project and collaborating with others is the best way to get things done
- Natural work strength : coaching and counselling
- Cooperate to gain agreement, provide support, communicate trust and confidence.
- Warm , coorperative, attentive, gathers infos and process with others b4 making decisions, wants to establish strong, trusting r/s. Wants decision to be supported by others, people-oriented, relies on others, friendly and open

When a Amiable person under tension ... they will . . .

- smooths relationship
- yields to others viewpoint
- wavers to an opinion , hesitates
- gives in , withdraw support
- example : Everyone say its A answer , Amiable person will " ok lar, A then A lor " .

* Acquiesces : Goes along reduce personal tension

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Driver

- Tell Assertive , More control
- Independent
- Formal
- Pratical
- Dominating
- Ppl who in this category are mostly bossy ( e.g : ur boss )
- Focus on results , take charge , make quick decision , likes challenges
- Need : Results
- Orientation : Action
- Growth action : To listen
- People in this category is strict, dominating , want a quick results etc.
- Work and nonverbal cues : Serious , formal posture, rapid speech, direct
- Work style : Independent
- Attitude bout others : R/s is important but secondary until the task is defined.
- Natural work activity strengths : Initiating and motivating.
- Personal motivator : Power , seek to control ,prefers to be given options and allowed to make decisions.


When a Driver person in tension , they . .

- confronts others
- Focus on the issue
- Looks for rationale
- becomes demanding ( e.g : I dont care,i want you to get it done now!!! )


* Autocratic : Takes charge to reduce personal tension

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Expressive

- Tell Assertive , More emoting
- Animated
- Forceful
- Opinionated
- Impulsive
- People in this category are like to show off , like to express themselves.
(e.g : ppl who buy sport cars to show off their power / rich )
- Need : Personal Approval
- Orientation : Spontaneity
- Growth action : To check
- Create excitement and involvement , shares ideas, dreams , euthusiam.
- Motivate , ispire , persuade.
- Verbal and nonverbal cues : Energetic, enthusiastic, gestures that are open and wide, voice that is loud and varied. Fast paced and lively.
- Work styles : with others
- Attitude bout time : Move fast but spend time energizing others , sharing visions and dreams
- Attitude bout others : Its very important to work with ppl to help make their own dreams reality.
- Outgoing , tends to guide more by vision than facts ,collaborates in finding and implementing quality sollutions, desee the big picture before probing for details, futuristic, holistic thinker, inspring, direct and open , gestures that are open and wide , voice that is loud and lively.


When a Expressive person in tension , . .

- confronts others
-verbalizes judgemental feelings
- blames others personally
- shows extreme emotion


* Attacks : Confronts others to reduce personal tension

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In the learning session , other group defines me as a Amiable person.



So , which group of the social style u belong to? :)

There is more details on each group but too much to type liao.

Bribe me , i might consider ;p